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True Intimacy Depends Upon Separateness

INTIMACY DEPENDS ON SEPARATENESS   In earliest childhood our self-concept emerges from the symbiotic union of mother and baby.  Gradually it dawns on us that we are separate from our earliest caregivers.  First we learn we have a separate body … Continue reading

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Fusion vs. Togetherness: Forces in Balance

INDIVIDUALITY AND TOGETHERNESS FORCES IN BALANCE   In all of nature, the maintenance of the status quo is a function of a dynamic balance between opposing forces. Gravity and centrifugal force keep the planets in formation. The heat of the … Continue reading

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